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校园生活:大学新生手册之交友的艺术

2013-04-02 09:59

10彩票开户Whether you were the shy one at high school or the most popular person on campus, starting university is a clean slate for everyone.

BUGUANGAOZHONGSHINISHIMIANTIANSHAONIAN,HAISHIXIAOYUANZHONGDEFENGYUNRENWU;SHENGRUDAXUE,MEIGERENDOUSHIYIZHANGBAIZHI。

10彩票开户It's the best time to develop your skills with different people, such as teachers, classmates, and roommates. Your social skills and relationships with people in college will have an influence long after you graduate.

DAXUESHIPEIYANGRENJIJIAOWANGNENGLIDEZUIJIASHIJI,NIHUITONGLAOSHI、TONGXUE、SHIYOUDENGBUTONGRENQUNDAJIAODAO。DAXUEQIJIAN,NIDESHEJIAOJINENGYIJIRENMAIGUANXIJIANGHUIZAINIBIYEHOUFAHUICHIJIUDEYINGXIANGLI。

Here are some tips on developing your people skills at college.

ZHEILIWEINITIGONGYIXIEGUANYUDAXUEQIJIANPEIYANGSHEJIAONENGLIDEXIAOTIESHI。

10彩票开户Put yourself out there and meet new people

TUIXIAOZIJI,GUANGJIAOHAOYOU

10彩票开户You're very likely to make some lifelong friendships at college. But before you get there you have to start by making acquaintances.

10彩票开户DAXUEQIJIAN,NIHENYOUKENENGHUIJIEJIAOYIBEIZIDEZHIYOU。DANZAINEIZHIQIAN,NIBIXUCONGJIEJIAOPENGYOUKAISHI。

10彩票开户Upperclassmen and the college itself will organize events to introduce you and your peers to each other and the new college environment. For the sake of improving your social skills early on, attend every single one.

GAONIANJIXUEZHANGMENHEXUEXIAODOUHUIZUZHIGEZHONGHUODONG,JIESHAONIHETONGXUEMENXIANGHURENSHI,SHUXIXINXIAOYUANHUANJING。WEILEJINZAOTIGAONIDESHEJIAONENGLI,ZHEILEIHUODONGYIXIANGDOUBUYAOCUOGUO。

Join clubs that fit your interests. You can meet many people there and it's a safe bet that you will have something in common.

10彩票开户CANJIANIGANXINGQUDESHETUAN。ZAINEILI,NINENGJIANDAOHENDUOREN,ERQIENIMENJIHUBAIFENBAINENGGOUZHAODAOZHITONGDAOHEZHICHU。

10彩票开户Being active on social networks, such as Renren and micro blogs, is also a good way to meet people, especially if you're not so good at face-to-face conversation.

10彩票开户CHENGWEIRENRENWANG、WEIBOZHEILEISHEJIAOWANGZHANSHANGDEHUOYUEFENZIYESHIGEJIAOPENGYOUDEHAOFANGFA,YOUQIZAINIBUTAISHANZHANGYURENMIANDUIMIANGOUTONGDEQINGKUANGXIA。

10彩票开户Always open yourself to conversation

CHANGKAIXINFEI,RONGRUJIAOLIU

10彩票开户Your chances of making new friends depends on your ability to get a friendly vibe across.

JIESHIXINPENGYOUDEJILVDAXIAOQUJUEYUNIDEQINHELI。

Simple gestures, such as moving your things from a chair when someone is looking for a place in the canteen, can make you seem more open to conversation. You can also take out your earphones when someone asks to share a table with you in the common room while you're studying.

10彩票开户YIXIEJUSHOUZHILAOBIANNENGRANGNIKANSHANGQUGENGYUANYIQUYURENJIAOLIU。BIRU,DANGYOURENZAISHITANGZHONGXUNZHAOKONGWEISHI,NIKEYIBAZIJIDEDONGXICONGZUOYISHANGYIKAI;DANGNIZAIGONGGONGJIAOSHILIZIXISHI,RUGUOYOURENXIANGYUNIGONGXIANGYIZHANGZHUOZISHI,NIKEYIZHAIXIAZIJIDEERJI。

10彩票开户Try to get along with roommates

CHANGSHIYUSHIYOUHEXIEXIANGCHU

Getting along with roommates is a challenge you'd be wise to overcome. You live together, so you will often spend time together without even trying to. It's important to make sure that dorm life doesn't make you unhappy.

YUSHIYOUXIANGCHUSHIXIANGTIAOZHAN,MINGZHIZHIJUSHIQUZHANSHENGZHEIGEKUNNAN。NIMENZHUZAIYIQI,YINCILIANXIANGBUDOUYONGXIANG,NIMENDABUFENSHIJIANDOUHUIDAIZAIYIQI。ZHONGYAODESHIYAOQUEBAOZIJIDEQINSHISHENGHUOBUHUIRANGNIBUKAIXIN。

You should be cautious about confronting your roommates over any problems, especially if you have only just met. Remember, be polite but firm.

BUGUANYUSHIYOUJIUHEZHONGWENTIFASHENGCHONGTU,NIDOUYINGGAIGEWAIJINSHEN,YOUQISHIDANGNIMENGANGGANGXIANGSHIBUJIUSHI。QIEJI,TAIDUYAOLIMAODANSHIJIANJUE。

10彩票开户The key is to set expectations and clear boundaries from the beginning. Let your roommates know your life habits, but also observe and respect theirs. Sleeping times and studying schedules, visiting friends and cleaning duties are just some of the topics you should discuss.

10彩票开户JIEJUEZHIDAOZAIYU,CONGYIKAISHIJIUYAOSHEDINGHAOYUQIHEMINGQUEJIEXIAN。RANGSHIYOUZHIDAONIDESHENGHUOXIGUAN,DANTONGSHIYEYAOLEJIEBINGZUNZHONGTAMENDEXIGUAN。JIUQINSHIJIAN、XUEXISHIJIANBIAO、BAIFANGPENGYOUYIJIDASAOQINSHIWEISHENGDOUSHINIMENYINGGAITAOLUNDEHUATIZHIYI。

Avoid drama and gossip

10彩票开户BIMIANXIJUSHIJIANHELIUYANFEIYU

10彩票开户As you already know from high school, your social life will be much more pleasant if you avoid causing and getting caught up in drama, no matter whether in class, dorm, or elsewhere.

10彩票开户NICONGGAOZHONGSHIBIANYIJINGZHIDAO,BUGUANSHIZAIKETANGSHANG、QINSHILIHUOSHIRENHEQITADIFANG,RUGUONENGBIMIANYINFAHUOJUANRUXIJUXINGSHIJIAN,NIDESHEJIAOSHENGHUOHUIBIANDEGENGJIAYUKUAI。

When it comes to gossip, learn to keep your mouth shut and you'll avoid trouble. This is especially important if you live in a dorm, where staying away from someone you've offended is difficult.

10彩票开户ERTIDAOLIUYANFEIYU,GUANZHUZUIBAJIUNENGBIMIANMAFAN。RUGUONIZHUZAIQINSHILI,ZHEIDIANYOUQIZHONGYAO,YINWEINIGENBENWUFABIKAINEIXIEBEINIYANYUZHONGSHANGGUODEREN。

10彩票开户Romance, or not?

AIQING,SHIQUSHISHE?

Romantic relationships are usually inevitable in college life. Maybe you've just come through a breakup because you and your boyfriend/girlfriend have gone to different cities. Or maybe you are single and you now think you have the freedom to fall in love with whomever you please.

ZAIDAXUESHENGHUOZHONG,LIANAITONGCHANGSHIBUKEBIMIANDE。YEXUNIGANGGANGBAITUOTONGLIANRENGEBENDONGXIDETONGKU;HUOXUDANSHENDENIXIANZAIJUEDEZIJIYOUYUXIHUANDERENTANLIANAIDEZIYOU。

It's possible that you will find the love of your life in college, but take it slow, and don't get attached to a significant other as soon as you get to college. He or she will become your crutch and you will lose out on meeting other people and potential friends.

10彩票开户NIKENENGHUINENGZAIDAXUELIZHAODAOZHONGSHENBANLV,DANSHIBUFANGMANMANLAI,QIANWANBUYAOGANGJINDAXUEJIULIANSHANGMOUGEQINMIAIREN。TAHUOTAKENENGHUICHENGWEINIDEGANQINGZHIZHU,YUSHINIBIANSHIQULEJIESHITARENHEQIANZAIPENGYOUDEJIHUI。

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